The perfect woman for any man

This topic came out randomly during a yumcha session with my friends earlier today. There was also a bunch of useless topics that came up, and although this one was a short 1, me and a friend totally agreed while the other 2 didnt have any comment. (For those who can read this in FB, if you agree, "like" this post, so at least i can gauge the response.

Now what is the answer to the title of this post?

The perfect person for any man, in my humble opinion, is a woman, who is smarter than the man.
But not just as simple as that. Its how she uses her "smart-ness" (sorry, i cant seem to think of a better word at the moment ;-p) towards the person she loves.

We all know that in general, men are egoistic creature. They may not exude that characteristic to everyone, but for the person they love, they feel that it is important that they can provide what ever the woman needs. Now we all know men aren't perfect, much as I'd like to think so. There are many a times there are things that we can't do or help, and if she gets help from some1 else without asking us 1st, we might feel hurt. No doubt we may not be able to help, but i think most guys want to be the "go to" guy. To be bypassed hurts our ego, makes most of us feel inadequate.

Now this is where the smart woman comes into play. She knows how to take care of her man's ego. She knows how to use the rights words to say to make him feel good. She knows what he wants to hear and so she says it. This applies to anything that needs fixing or a simple problem. Even if the woman can solve the problem herself, she will ask for the guys opinion eventhough she knows the right things to be done. He, on the other hand, feels damn proud to be to "go to" guy and giveshis opinion. And when the situation is fixed, he feels great, thinking that he had just helped the love of his life with a difficult task.

I wonder if you guys can see where I'm getting at. I feel that the perfect woman for all of us, is much smarter than us, just that in a way that we don't know. She will make us feel like we are the smartest, most helpful, most knowledgeable person in the world, her knight in shining armour. And the thing is, we may never know that at all. Most women, unlike most men (i mentioned most, not every1), tend to be more self sacrificial and are willing to take a step back and let others have the glory (that is why we have housewives, and women as nurses and etc).

No doubt I dont mean that women have to be PHD holders or anything, she just has to use it is such a manner that we men may never know. She will say things we want to hear, and ask us for advice or ask us to help them. We will of course, help them and thump our chests later like King Kong with our own guy friends at the bar later.

As you can see, we men are simple creatures, and although some people seeit as a joke that men only like women who loves sex and sports, that is not true. If u just think about it a little deeper, its just women who are willing to sacrifice a lot for us, and without us ever knowing it.

To the women who are doing that now, I salute you! Its not easy, I'm certain, but there lots of things we will always do for our loved ones and this is one of them.

For those who don't know it, re-read the above again. Its really that simple. Guys are even easier to understand than cats (to those who think its easier to live with 15 cats than a single man).

Again, if you agree (On Facebook, like this post), leave a comment here. Well it applies even if you disagree, i would like your opinion on this :-)


Boodyboy, out!!!