Its not about...

... the wedding, its who you wed.

its not about whats the perfrect date, its who you date.

its not about the ideal characteristics, its the person.

its not about the ideal honeymoon spot, its the person.

its not the perfect lifestyle, its the person.

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It's strange how sometimes we get to pre-occupied with how our dream life would be like. We would make a lot of choices in this life based on the ideals or rules we have set for ourselves. I guess I'm guilty on that charge. I've always been chasing a dream. But dreams are soemthing u cannot grasp with your hands. But having a hand to hold, now thats something real you can feel.

I've always had this ideal lifestyle that I would like in the future. With my future wife, and family and etc. Then I'd filter out the people I meet based on whether i think they'd fit into my future scenarios. We shouldnt be trying to fit a person into the picture.

In fact, I guess what we all could use is just the right person. For the right person would make all those dream scenarios we have seem unimportant.

Its not about the dream wedding. Dream wedding is only temporary.

Its about the dream girl. The girl that makes everyday seem like a dream. A dream come true.



Boodyboy, out!!!